i put out a post before saying that i wouldn't say anything emotional and all that but i guess i just have to type this out... i'm in need of desperate help... frenz, family, and even my best frenz!!! this post is mainly about wat i'm jealous about...
have u ever heard of the saying "some people are born with talent, but everybody has talents that needs to be found..." well i'll say, that saying can be applied it wat i'm about to say... like the phrase "some people are born wtih talent..." i'm referring to the people who r born attractive... these people r wat i'm jealous of...
in my experience... i've seen my frenz do absolutely nothing and people starts to get close to him... how??? i don't know... today a played around of golf and i c a girls taking his phone number from out of no where... another frenz that has tons of frenz which r girls... its easy for them to make frenz with girls, i think its becoz that girls want to be with him... there's nothing that stand in their way... he has character, personality, and the most important... looks... do u know wat i was abit pissed off about... when we were playing golf... his phone kept on ringing of text msgs... thats not wat pisses me off... wat pissed me off is that all of the msgs are from girls... from that moment... i kept on thinking.... "we can i be born like him!!!" i mean look at me... i'm nothing!!!! i'm fat... unattractive... from far, i look like an old man... HECK a kid even thought that i was an uncle playing golf!!!... i met a fren at the basketball court and he ask me to accompany him to buy some drinks... all of a sudden he asked me "so... u working for which company?" how pethetic is that???!!!... i look old and fat... some people even say i look like a gangster... sign...
i need help... NO, advice from people out there... wat can i do to rid myself off this jealousy... to find that talent thats inside me... wat???!!!!
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Quraishia:
ReplyDeleteHey there, sorry, I couldnt help myslef. I saw your pot in advert in facebook about seeking for advice about yer problem and thought I'll go ahead and try to sort your problem out. I'll try anyway.
Okay, from what Iv'e read, you are jelous that your friends/ others can easily get more attention from others than you can. You compare mostly on what you think they have that you dont. well, fair enough, its just a feeling you get when you think that someone is better than you. Everyones had it, most of them anyway.
Thing is right, each individual are differnt from the other so you cant always have the same thing you know. Some people are probably well off than others in different ways. Its understandable that you do have that mind set when you think that some are better than you or when people are born with natural talent.
Life isn't always fair, some people are have the natural ability to be more approachable without any effort put it whatsoever but you know what right,you do have a unique-ness that noone has. I might not know what it is but if you ask your friends or family or maybe if you try finding it out ourself somehow then you'll see that you're just as good. : ) besides, some people got to know their talent or whatever it is just abit slower than others so its no worries.
Another point is that, its completely understandable why you tend to feel jelous but feeling jelous isnt really going to be much help if you dont want to maybe try to do something about it? why not try to change the way you dress or something?
personally, i think that its pointless if you keep feeling jelous the way you are and not actually try to change anyhting. sure, maybe your friends a bit more attractive than you..dont really know but you could replace what you dont have with something you do ( such as your personality or something )
What i mean is, if you think you cant be someone better just because you tend to think you dont have the looks for it then why not be abit more out there...a bit more friendly and fun and stuff like that... that would still get you more girls as well.
So really, try to get the jelousy out of system.like i said, if you change your stlye or the way you approach ppl alittle, they wont mistake you for an old man. But im trying to help anyway. : ) CHEERS.x
and by the way, its not about luck. Its about you being grateful of what you have and make the most of it. And what if they can get more girls than you do? theres a million ways to get what you want and earning it. some of the things you mentioned, like your friends, you said that they're fine and walk about their daily lives with nothing to worry about? yeah sure, when it comes to the getting the opposite sex's attention then yeah, they got it well easy . but hey, they're not perfect either. they might be struggling in some other areas. listen right, this getting attention from other people thing is not necessarily an issue. People judge all the time, in the things you do and how you look and stuff so that shouldn't really let you down. CHEERS.x
ReplyDeleteOih dude cheer up! ><
ReplyDeleteBtw, i'm back in miri xD